Part 3: Interview Etiquette

Hey! Welcome back to Public Kayfabe, your one-stop shop on how to land and execute top interviews with wrestling’s elite.

To recap last week’s installment, you began prepping the types of questions to ask during your interview, what topics to avoid and you have freaked out twice already in this process!

You also were probably left wondering how you were going to keep your composure and focus during the interview, right?  Well fear not, because today’s lesson will be the first of two parts on the etiquette techniques you need to execute a flawless interview.

The Ultimate Warrior (right) and I after his Frank & Sons Collectibles signing, in the City of Industry, CA. – November 2012. | Photo by: Marlene Valdes

Prior to your big day, confirm the date, venue and time with your subject.  I know, that should be a given, right?  However, you would be amazed by how many people book an interview and show up late, they go to the wrong location, all for having it marked wrong on their calendar.  Confirming your details prevents any hiccups and is incredibly professional.

OK, it’s interview day!  Now let’s peek at your wardrobe.  Are we lookin’ fresh or are we feelin’ frumpy?  For a casual in-person interview, a go-to outfit is a nice pair of jeans, a sensible pair of shoes, a dressy type of plain t-shirt and blazer over that.  You want to look to professional, but still be able to acclimate to the casual conversation you want to have with your subject.  Do NOT, I repeat – DO NOT show up in the wrestler’s merchandise and/or with a replica championship belt on.  Yes, you can be a fan, but you’re a professional first.  Once you’re dressed, look in the mirror and ask yourself; “Are you ready?”  With that, grab your notepad, your pen and hit the road! 

“Stone Cold” Steve Austin celebrates in the center of the ring, with a capacity crowd at WrestleMania 25, near the press box at Reliant Stadium in Houston, TX. – April 5, 2009. | Photo by: Brandi Garcia-Valdes

By now you’re probably starting to become a little anxious.  Breathe!  Everything you’re experiencing is natural.  The nervousness you have means you’re excited for this opportunity and understand the significance of what you’re about to do.  However, all those freak outs need to be at home or in the car on the way to your interview.  There’s an old saying in the wrestling business that goes; “Act like you’ve been here before,” which means to act natural and be professional.

Now that you’re prepped, primed and ready to go; arrive 15 minutes early to the venue and grab a seat.  Once they arrive make sure to greet your subject with a firm handshake and eye contact.  OK kid, it’s showtime!

Former WWE ring announcer Lilian Garcia (right) and I, after our interview in Los Angeles, CA. – September 2007. | Photo by: Marlene Valdes

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Step 2: Prepping Your Questions!

Preparing is essential to executing a stand-out interview.

WrestleMania 25’s emblem near the press box at Reliant Stadium, in Houston, TX. – April 5, 2009. | Photo by: Brandi Garcia-Valdes

Hello and welcome back to Public Kayfabe!

 Your one-stop shop on how to land and execute top interviews with wrestling’s elite.

To recap our last time together, you nailed your research, story pitch and the wrestler you contacted has agreed to meet with you for an ON-RECORD interview!

Cue the fan freak out in three…two…one!

OK, let’s settle down!

This next part is simple, but VITAL; the interview preparation

This installment will focus on various questions you can ask in order to gain a deep and insightful connection and conversation.

Since you have a narrowed down talking point that your subject agreed to be interviewed on, that’s what you’ll focus on.

The next thing to do is ensure your questions are open-ended.

ECW legend Sabu (center), with my friend Lola (right) and I, at his autograph signing, at Frank & Son’s Collectibles Show. – June 2013 | Photo by: Brandi Garcia-Valdes

WWE Hall of Famer “The Rated R Superstar” Edge and I, right after our interview at Las Vegas’ Cauliflower Alley Club’s Reunion. – April 2013. | Photo by: Brandi Garcia-Valdes

Be sure to cover all your bases by steering clear of known taboo topics with your subject, but also give them the space to open-up.

Remember, despite the boisterous, over the top nature of the wrestling industry and the characters they portray – these are human beings, no different than you and I.

You’re probably wondering how you’re going to stay focused on that, right?  Well, fear not because next week’s installment will guide you through etiquette ground rules to remember just that!

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